Cremation has been a funeral option in the UK for over 150 years, but it still remains a mystery to many people. Here, we look at exactly what happens at a cremation so you and your family know what to expect.
When someone is taken to a crematorium, they’re given a unique identification number and physical tag. This is an essential safeguard to track them through the whole cremation process. It also helps to give your family the confidence that the ashes you receive are the remains of your loved one.
The medical forms and certificate are also checked at the crematorium. This is to make sure the cremation has been authorised by a doctor before taking place.
To prepare the body for cremation, any medical devices (such as a pacemaker) are removed. It’s always recommended that families remove any jewellery before their loved one is collected, but another check will be carried out at the crematorium just to make sure.
Your loved one is then placed in a simple wooden coffin before being moved through to the cremation chamber.
Once all the forms are approved and the body has been prepared, your loved one is placed in the cremation chamber. This is set to a temperature between 1000°C and 1300°C. Once the ashes have cooled, they are collected in a temporary urn ready to be returned to your family.
A cremation takes around 2-3 hours to complete, creating between 1kg and 3kg of ashes. However, it’s very rare that families actually watch the cremation take place.
With a traditional cremation, a curtain usually comes across when the body is committed to the chamber. This is often the point in the ceremony where family and friends leave the crematorium.
With direct cremation, the memorial service takes place at a later date (often with the ashes present), so the cremation itself isn’t attended by family or friends.
It takes between one and two weeks to receive the ashes after a cremation. With direct cremation, these are usually hand-delivered to you in a temporary urn. But if you arrange a traditional cremation, the ashes may need to be collected from the crematorium or funeral director.
In 2016, only 2% of funerals were direct cremations. By 2019, this figure rose to 8%. There are many reasons for this sudden increase in popularity, including cost, personalisation and convenience.
Here, we’ll explain the key differences between direct cremation and traditional cremation:
With a traditional cremation, a funeral service usually takes place at the crematorium before the body is committed to the chamber. This needs to be arranged by a funeral director.
With direct cremation, the memorial service happens after the ashes have been returned to the family. This is usually arranged by the partner or children of the person who died, and can take place anywhere from your home, to the pub, to a favourite restaurant.
The average cost of a traditional cremation in the UK is £3,250, while a direct cremation costs around £1,000. The main reason for this difference is the fact that a traditional cremation requires a funeral director, which may mean paying a premium for things like the coffin, urn and flowers.
At a time when 1 in 8 families goes into debt when arranging a funeral, more and more people are deciding to take their loved one’s memorial into their own hands.
When arranging a traditional cremation, you’ll be given options for things like the coffin, urn, flowers, music and readings. However, all of this will need to be arranged through a funeral director and the ceremony itself will need to take place at the crematorium.
With direct cremation, there is very little choice when it comes to the cremation itself. But once you’ve received your loved one’s ashes, you have the freedom to arrange a memorial that’s right for you and your family – not a funeral director.
What can you do with the ashes after a cremation?
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