How to choose who inherits your estate

When you're writing a will it's important to think about who is going to inherit your estate. Here, we cover everything you need to know before choosing your beneficiaries.

Many people put off writing a will because they assume everything will work out fine if they die unexpectedly. But this isn’t always the case.

Modern families come in all shapes and sizes, but the law hasn’t quite caught up. So if you have children from a previous relationship, or step children, it’s important to make a will to make sure they get their fair share.

A will can also help avoid confusion and family conflict at what could already be a distressing time. Here, we’ll cover the key questions people ask about sharing out their estate.

What is my residuary estate?

Your residuary estate is everything you own after any debts, bills and taxes have been paid and after the specific gifts you include in your will have been distributed.

This includes things like:

✅ Bank accounts

✅ Savings

✅ ISAs

✅ Property (owned solely or as tenants in common)

✅ Stocks and shares

✅ Jewellery

And here are a few things that aren’t included in your residuary estate:

❌ Pensions or life insurance policies written in trust: these go directly to the person you nominated when you took out the policy, so can’t be shared out as part of your residuary estate.

❌ Joint bank accounts: these automatically go to the joint-owner when you die.

❌ Jointly-owned property: if you own the property as joint tenants, it will go to the joint owner. You can read more about what happens to your property when you die.

Who should I leave my estate to in my will?

If you’re in a relationship…

Most married couples, civil partners and long-term partners choose to leave the bulk of their residuary estate to their partner. This is usually due to shared responsibilities like bringing up children or paying a mortgage where your partner would rely on your financial support. It's important to remember that without a will, if you are in a long term relationship and not married, or in a civil partnership, your partner will not inherit automatically.

If you’re a single parent…

If you’re a parent but don’t have a partner, you may wish to share your estate between your children. Anything left to children under 18 will be held by your executors until they reach adulthood. Your executors can choose to transfer the gift to the child’s parent or guardian for safekeeping at their discretion, or to use it for the child’s benefit before they reach 18.

If you don’t want to leave your money to your family…

If you don't make a will, your money will automatically go to members of your family. So it’s important to set out your wishes to make sure your estate doesn’t go to the wrong people.

If you don’t want to leave your estate to your family or close friends, you may choose to include a charity in your will.

Protecting your children from a previous relationship

If you’ve remarried or entered into a civil partnership, you may want to:

  • pass on your share of your family home to your children from a previous relationship

  • make sure your new spouse or partner still has somewhere to live in their lifetime, should you die first

If so, you could look at setting up a property trust as part of your will. A property trust is a way of letting someone benefit from your property after you’ve died, without them actually owning it. The will should set out how you would like the property to be managed, who will ultimately benefit, and who is in control of the property.

It means for example, that your surviving spouse or civil partner could continue to live in your shared home, and when they die, your share of the property will pass on to your beneficiaries – even if your spouse or civil partner’s share does not.

Leaving part of your estate to charity

Since starting our online will writing service in 2016, our generous customers have pledged over £1.3 billion to charities across the country – including Cancer Research UK, Greenpeace and The British Legion.

Around 1 in 3 people choose to leave a gift to a charity that they feel strongly about. This has an enormous impact on charities in the UK, accounting for 25% of all voluntary charitable contributions.

You can choose to leave a percentage of your residuary estate to more than one charity if you wish. And if you leave 10% or more of your taxable estate to charity, you could reduce your tax bill.

Can my wishes still be disputed if I write a will?

When writing a will in England and Wales, there is full ‘testamentary freedom’. This means there are no set rules about who you have to include as a beneficiary of your estate.

However, there are some people who can make a claim against your estate on the grounds that your will fails to make reasonable financial provision for them. It's important to be aware of this if you are intentionally excluding a partner, child or somebody else who depends on you financially.

People who can claim against your estate include your children, ex-wife, ex-husband, civil partner who has yet to remarry, or somebody who has lived with you as a partner for the two years preceding your death. Anyone else who you are financially responsible for – such as step children or other children (even if they are over 18) under your care – could also make a claim.

What happens if the beneficiaries in my will die before me?

Writing a will is all about being prepared. So when you choose who you want to inherit your estate, we’ll also ask you to name back-ups in case your chosen beneficiary dies before you. These are known as secondary beneficiaries.

You may, for example, choose to leave your entire estate to your partner. You could then choose your children as secondary beneficiaries – so if your partner dies before you, everything would go to your children.

In the unlikely event that all your primary and secondary beneficiaries die before you, your estate will be distributed according to the rules of intestacy. Alternatively, if you're using Farewill's online will writing service, you can update your will anytime your circumstances change for just £10 a year.

How to choose who inherits your estate

With our online will writing service, you can set out who you want to inherit your estate in just a few minutes. If you're growing your family you can also subscribe to our unlimited update service, which means you can update your will anytime in the future.

If you'd prefer more support, or you have a more complex will, we also offer a service where you can write your will with a professional over the phone. They'll take the time to understand your situation and guide you through the process step by step.

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